QUOTE (mcraigclark @ Mar 9 2010, 05:29 PM)

I try not to put too much thought to this, but don't you think that it really is astonishing that some of us have flown across oceans to hang out together? We are not strangers the first time we meet each other. I'm desperately trying to avoid being cheesy, but the internet helped create friendships and I'm a little bit amazed by how real (for me, anyway) some of those friendships are. I loved some of you before I knew what your voices sounded like. [/endcheese]
It poses the question of what defines you as "knowing" someone. Do you have to meet physically in the real world in order to? I don't think so.
I know I'm obviously one of the single most biased people here when it comes to this topic, but I don't see why you can't know someone as well (if not better) online than "IRL". I know that in the case of me and Chelsea, the initial cause that made us so close was me getting Crohn's, and her being already a close online friend who I trusted. I could talk about my illness and not be embarrassed, because I felt more comfortable typing it and didn't have to see her in classes the next day or something. We had a firm friendship already, but that elevated it to the point where this time five years ago she was by far and away my best and closest friend, and I the same. That simply wouldn't have happened in the real world.
As for you guys, I don't know any of you outside the forum, and the only reason I wouldn't put you in the same box as my (now very small number of) real-life friends is simply because we don't talk in any other form than on here, and that's not the same relationship as a one-to-one or normal group discussion. I trust the opinion of some of you more than I do anyone but Chelsea, because you've known of my problems and my life for longer and closer than others (again, talking online is easier than face-to-face on some topics).
You're my friends, you're just a different kind of friend. If I had the money, I would without hesitation fly to New York and know I had friends there who could show me around and hang out with. Or I could go to London and know I could expect the same. That's friendship, no matter what your thoughts on how traditional an online relationship is or isn't.